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主講人:李崇建。 課程費用:免費。 課程時間: 美西(GMT -7):9/10 (Sat) 4-6PM。 美東(GMT -4):9/10 (Sat) 7-9PM 。 亞洲 (GMT+8):9/11 (Sun)7-9AM


  • Date: 9/10/2022 04:00 PM
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聯合主辦單位:

加拿大經典文化教育基金會

加華心理健康互助

加拿大心理健康互助中心

主講人:李崇建

課程費用:免費

課程時間:

美西(GMT -7):9/10 (Sat) 4-6PM

美東(GMT -4):9/10 (Sat) 7-9PM  

亞洲 (GMT+8):9/11 (Sun)7-9AM


承載東方文化思維的父母,與言行日漸西化的孩子,雙方會產生什麼衝擊?

這樣的衝擊下,父母好辛苦,孩子好無奈,漸行漸遠的家人,如何重新開啟對話之門?

在亞洲,三天一小考、五天一大考是孩子的日常。學校下午四、五點放學了,接著去課後補習班繼續學習,回家後,有成堆的作業等著孩子,好不容易寫完功課,也還要趕著學習各項才藝,忙著參加各項比賽。

到了異鄉,在西方的快樂學習、自由發展的教育氛圍成長的孩子,便為這樣的第一代移民父母貼上 Asian Parents(亞裔父母)的標籤,甚或覺得父母就是只會要求孩子各科全A的「虎爸、虎媽」!

父母也很困惑,光靠快樂學習,大學申請書上就能有亮眼成績?進入一所好大學,應該很重要吧!如果沒有起早摸黑的苦練,運動才藝會有優秀表現?

身處移民異鄉的父母,過去成長所依據的價值系統,在新環境受到許多挑戰。尤其是親子之間的衝突,讓彼此失去連結,更是令人措手不及,惶惶不安!

有沒有這樣一座橋,一邊連結著東方價值,一邊連結著西方思維,連結著父母和孩子?

長年推廣薩提爾對話的李崇建老師,將在課程中,帶領我們學習如何透過對話,連結孩子的渴望,協助父母和孩子搭起一座東西方相互交融的和諧之橋。


What will be the impact be on both the parents who carry the thinking of eastern culture and the children whose words and deeds are becoming more and more westernized?

Under such an impact, parents are very strict, and the children are helpless; how do we reopen the door of dialogue between these families that are drifting apart?

In Asia, quizzes every three days and big tests every five days are the daily routine of children. School ends at 4 or 5 o'clock in the afternoon, then they go to an after-school cram school to continue their studies. When they get home, there are piles of homework waiting for the child. After finally finishing the homework, they have to rush to learn various extracurriculars, and compete in their competitions.

Arriving at a foreign land, children who grew up in the educational atmosphere of happy learning and free development in the West would label such first-generation immigrant parents as “Asian Parents,” or even feel that parents are “Tiger Dads” or “Tiger Moms” who only ask their children for straight A's. 

Parents are also very confused. Just by studying happily, the child to have outstanding grades on the college application? Getting into a good university should be very important! If there is no hard work put in in which the student has to wake up early and train hard, will they perform well in sports and extracurriculars?

The value systems on which parents grew up in immigrant places in the past are challenged by the new environment. In particular, the conflict between parents and children makes them lose their connection, which makes it even more surprising and worrisome!

Is there such a bridge that connects Eastern values and Western thinking?

Teacher Li Chongjian, who has been promoting the Satir dialogue for many years, will lead us to learn how to connect with children's desires through dialogue, and help parents and children build a bridge of harmony between the East and the West.