【羨慕、嫉妒與我們的故事】（單堂）

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您是否曾經感到「羨慕」或者「嫉妒」他人呢？

母性精神分析學者：梅蘭妮·克萊恩（Melanie Klein ,1882-1960）曾致力於探討人類「羨慕」和「嫉妒」的情感，並於她的著作《嫉羨與感恩》（Envy and Gratitude, 1957 ）中詳細論述。她認為，這些情感存在於我們心理底層本能中，是「與生俱來的」古老傳承，是來自於我們嬰兒時期的客體關係。

也就是說，對我們每個人而言，羨慕和嫉妒都是非常正常的心理狀態。

然而，既然是正常的狀態，為何當我們遇到時候，往往無法與它自然共處，反而經常深陷其中、困擾不已？關鍵原因在於：我們尚未真正了解「羨慕」和「嫉妒」的來源，以及這種「不舒服的感覺」對我們生命的意義。

在這堂課裡，我們將從精神分析理論以及神話傳說的角度去認識「羨慕」與「嫉妒」的真實樣貌。從而反思我們所處的社會文化與生活慣性等盲點，讓我們能更自在、無畏地面對這些真實的情緒反應。

【講師簡介】

林晴晴Ching-Ching Lin （Rose Lin）

【個人簡歷】

國立臺北護理健康大學約聘講師。

國立交通陽明大學「婦女暨兒童護理臨床研究所」碩士。

《愛欲與文明》（Eros and Civilization) 譯者。

曾受邀多場心理學與社會學與哲學相關線上與實體講座。

於國立醫學中心醫療服務逾十五年，曾參與多項研究，致力於探討婦女及兒童社會心理健康議題。育有一女一子，擅長將理論融入生活思考，並於主流框架外尋得無畏、自在的可能性。

【Envy, jealousy, and our own story】（1 session）

Instructor：Ching-Ching Lin （Rose Lin）

【Course Outline】

Have you ever felt "envious" or "jealous" of others?

Melanie Klein (1882-1960), a psychoanalyst specializing in maternal psychology, devoted herself to exploring human emotions of "envy" and "jealousy". In her work "Envy and Gratitude" (1957), she detailed her observations on these emotions. She believed that these emotions exist in our deepest psychological instincts and are ancient, innate, and inherited, originating from our infantile object relationships.

In other words, for each of us, envy and jealousy are normal psychological states. However, why is it that when we encounter them, we often cannot coexist naturally with them, but instead find ourselves deeply entrenched and troubled by them? The key reason is that we have not truly understood the origin of envy and jealousy or the meaning of this "uncomfortable feeling" in our lives.

In this course, we will use psychoanalytic theory and mythological stories to understand the true nature of envy and jealousy. Through this, we can reflect on the blind spots in our social and cultural context and habitual ways of living, enabling us to face these real emotional reactions more freely and fearlessly.

【Learning Objectives】

Understand tenvy and jealousy in psychoanalytic theory and ancient mythology, and stimulate more thoughts on emotional life.

【Specialized Terminology】

Envy 

Jealousy 

Gratitude 

Grievance 

Repression

Destructive impulses 

【Instructor】

Ching-Ching Lin (Rose Lin)

Lecturer at National Taipei University of Nursing and Health Sciences. 

Institute of Women and Children's Nursing, National Yang-Ming Chiao Tung University, Master's degree 

Ms. Lin is the translator of "Eros and Civilization." She has been invited to speak at numerous online and offline lectures on psychology, sociology, and philosophy. Having spent over 15 years in medical services at National Medical Center, she has ben devoted to exploring social and psychological health issues related to women and children. She has two children and is skilled at integrating theory into life and seeking efearless and free possibilities beyond mainstream frameworks.