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SUMMARY:2024年贊助會員 專屬福利
DESCRIPTION:每年舉辦超過300場次講座、課程、工作坊，感謝您和舞象一起協助更多華裔家庭，透過內在自我覺察，建立良好的人我關係，提高個人及家庭的幸福感，讓生命豐盛喜悅！\n《升等贊助會員-請詳閱說明內容，連結在內容裡喔 》\n舞象基金會贊助會員年費 USD60 \n《贊助會員專屬福利》 \n★獨享贊助會員專屬活動 \n★享部分課程免費或專屬折扣價 \n★部分課程享優先報名權 \n★美國地區學員首次成為贊助會員者，獲贈舞象心靈日誌一本 \n★2024年度精選影片無限次觀看 \n\n★今年可無限次觀看6+1部年度精選影片： \n★【愛無界限-台灣舞象基金會成立 師生見面座談會】\n1.藝術療癒創作–自我關照與疼惜\n2.《樂齡族力量訓練的第一本書》好書分享會：為何只有運動不夠，還需要訓練？\n3.心智圖筆記學習法與軟體操作\n4.非暴力溝通簡介\n5.催眠－潛意識溝通與情緒轉化\n6.薩提爾冰山對話實際運用分享會 \n\n【相關注意事項】\n●升等贊助會員年費並非捐款，兩者項目不同亦不可轉移為其他用途\n●請務必詳閱『會員制度及權益 Term and Condition』：\nhttps://www.dancing-with-the-elephant.com/qa/ \n\n《升等贊助會員-請你跟我這樣做 》\n登入【會員專區】→點選左側功能列→點選【加入贊助會員】→付款升等贊助會員(效期一年) \n連結 :  https://www.dancing-with-the-elephant.com/my-account/ \n您的支持，是舞象基金會成長的動力，請即刻升等贊助會員，享受多項優惠回饋！ \n\n  \n 
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SUMMARY:【錄影回放】李崇建-冰山系列(6堂)
DESCRIPTION:▲【錄影購買已截止】 \n\n▲【錄影觀看期限】 \n美西：7/1 (MON) 00:00 起 ~ 10/31 (THU) 23:00 截止\n美東：7/1 (MON) 03:00 起 ~ 11/01 (SUN) 02:00 截止\n亞洲：7/1 (MON) 15:00 起 ~ 11/01 (FRI)  14:00 截止 \n\n▲【課程適合對象】\n●對冰山層次有基本概念(不熟悉冰山或有興趣繼續深入了解)\n●參與過工作坊夥伴(一起來參加總複習)\n●看過冰山系列六堂錄影回放課程(想再複習一次加深功力清除盲點) \n\n▲【課程加值】\n1.李崇建-冰山系列(6堂)期限內可無限次觀看。\n2.購買【錄影回放】李崇建-冰山系列(6堂)，即可獲得線上【共學讀書會】(6堂)共學機會。\n3.線上【共學讀書會】(6堂)活動：由舞象創辦人Jessica 帶領大家一起研習崇建老師的冰山系列六堂課。\n4.線上【冰山系列共學讀書會】(6堂)時間 : \n美西(GMT -7)：8/18. 25(SUN). 8/29(THU). 9/8. 22. 29 (SUN) 21:00-22:30 PM \n美東(GMT -4)：8/18. 25(SUN). 8/29(THU). 9/8. 22. 29 (SUN) 00:00-01:30 AM \n亞洲(GMT+8)：8/19. 26(MON). 8/30(FRI). 9/9. 23. 30 (MON) 12:00-13:30 PM \nPS: 美西 (9/1 、9/15休息一次) \n5.線上【共學讀書會】(6堂) 會議室ID 參閱以下查詢三步驟。\n🔺【共學讀書會】課程ID與密碼 查詢三步驟\n★請跟我這樣做 →請登入官網👉我的會員專區👉所有購買記錄 / 課程 查詢\nhttps://www.dancing-with-the-elephant.com \n\n▲【回放注意事項】\n1.使用Youtube觀看，請務必確認會員資料中填寫回放Gmail帳號正確。\n2.中國學員使用小鵝通觀看，請務必確認會員資料中填寫有效之手機號碼。\n3.中國學員請先自行下載小鵝通APP並綁定手機號。\n(小鵝通官網：https://www.xiaoe-tech.com/assistant_download) \n\n  \n \n  \n\n透過冰山對話，可以深入了解一個人的內在…\n常常聽到「薩提爾的冰山對話」？每個人都是「冰山」？李崇建老師也講過「冰山」？ \n是的是的，還沒學習過冰山理論的您千萬別錯過，已經學過但想要復習的您也一定要把握機會，跟著李崇建老師學習！ \n薩提爾女士是20世紀最有影響力的心理師之一，她提出「冰山」一詞，隱喻每個人都是一座冰山，能被人看見的，只是冰山一角，也就是水平面以上的部分，而更大一部分，則藏在冰山的深層，是人們對事件和情境的感受、觀點、期待、渴望，更涉及「自我」的完整性。 \n冰山下隱藏的情緒，需要經過「探索」被挖掘、發現。想要執行「探索」，需要先建立「好奇心」！ \n有了好奇、問對問題，就有了接納，才能相互傾聽、建立溝通，達成關係的正向改變。 \n曾經學習過冰山的我們都知道，想要達成與他人心與心的連結，沒有一蹴可及的神話；想要改變溝通不良的關係，沒有立竿見影的奇蹟。一切都需要練習、再練習，將之內化先改變自己，進而改善與他人的關係，最後香醇甜美的成果，只有努力過的人才知道那無比美妙的滋味。 \n李崇建冰山系列（覺察、感受、行為、觀點、期待、渴望）六堂課程錄影，免費附贈6堂課程讀書會，歡迎一起來認識自己和他人內在的冰山~ \n\n【講師簡介】\n李崇建 \n香港自然學校、馬來西亞德信學校、馬來西亞小樹成長園教育顧問，以及馬來西亞薩提爾全人發展協會顧問、台灣學思達教育基金會董事及美國舞象基金會長期合作講師。\n東海大學中文系畢業。曾做過泥水匠、搬運工人、酒店服務生，考了5次大學才好不容易考上東海大學中文系，十歲母親離開家庭，在原生家庭傷痕累累長大，家庭的破碎刻畫著他的童年，形成老師獨特的經驗與人格，二十年薩提爾家族治療學派的學習，及與上萬個學生、家長、個人的對談經驗，讓崇建老師成為華人世界最傳奇的薩提爾冰山對話的推手，他在華人世界協助許多深陷相處窒礙的家庭一步一步走出難關，影響這些家庭和解改變，個人成長，夫妻關係和諧。 \n \n\n【Instructor Bio】\nLi Chong Jian \nLi Chongjian serves as an educational consultant for Hong Kong Nature School\, Malaysia Dexin School\, Malaysia Little Tree Learning Garden\, as well as an advisor for the Satir Whole Person Development Association of Malaysia and a board member of the Sharestart Educational Foundation of Taiwan. He is also a long-term collaborative instructor with the Dancing with the Elephant Foundation of U.S..\nGraduated from the Department of Chinese Literature\, Tunghai University in Taiwan\, he once worked as a plasterer\, a laborer\, and a hotel waiter. It took him five college entrance examinations before he was finally admitted to the Department of Chinese Literature of Tunghai University. His mother left the family when he was ten years old\, and he grew up amidst the scars of his broken family\, shaping his unique experiences and personality. \nWith twenty years of study in the Satir family therapy and experiences gained from dialogs with tens of thousands of students\, parents\, and individuals\, Teacher Li Chong Jian has become a legendary figure in the Chinese-speaking world for his role in promoting Satir Iceberg Dialogues. He has helped many families who are deeply troubled in getting along to get out of the difficulties step by step\, influencing the reconciliation and change of these families\, personal growth\, and harmonious marital relationships. \n\n 
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SUMMARY:增進彼此關係的8堂實踐課（8堂）
DESCRIPTION:【注意事項】 \n▲請留意，8月、9/5、11月、12月課程在(週四)；9/13、10月課程在(週五)。 \n▲11/3(日)2:00冬令時間開始，請亞洲學員留意上課時間(延後一小時)。 \n▲免費課程-無提供錄影回放及課程講義。 \n\n報名截止時間: 美西2024/12/5-18:00止 ；亞洲2024/12/6-10:00止。 \n\n和孩子的對話，和另一半的互動，和父母的關係，在人際互動中，有卡關嗎？ \n學了一些心理學理論，但問題沒什麼改善，覺得學這些沒什麼用。 \n真的「沒用」，就沒用。 \n如果沒有去「使用」這些理論方法，只是停留在頭腦去理解，生活的確不會改變。 \n很多人都能背出薩提爾的四種「應對姿態」，也知道「薩提冰山」的每一層。 \n但是，你知道自己最常出現的應對姿態是什麼嗎？你的家人又是如何應對你？ \n這樣的應對姿態下的冰山底層的信念(觀點)、期待等又各是什麼嗎？ \n你能夠帶著覺察靈活地運用各種「應對姿態」嗎？或是總是被慣性驅使，而只展現某種樣貌嗎？ \n你了解自己嗎？常常想做，但是又做不同。我自己內在發生了什麼？ \n如果以上也是你的疑問，好消息來了， \n舞象基金會特別推出「增進彼此關係的8堂實踐課」，八堂課有不同主題，每次課程皆有理論和實做。透過角色扮演，實際模疑關係中的互動狀況，從中覺察反思，讓我們更了解自己，經過練習，重新選擇，調整成最適合當下情境的行為，讓生活真正發生轉變。 \n八堂課課程內容非常豐富，從四種姿態的成因，到練習如何調整和運用。畫出自己和他人的冰山，並藉此探索冰山裡的影響脈絡。覺察自己的在關係中的角色，練習換位思考。練習覺察自己在情境中的期望和需要，是否表達了是否被滿足了。練習覺察反思自己的行為和動機是否一致。練習非暴力溝通，表達自己的感受，並且對方核對。 \n八堂課，讓你把理論「用」起來，在生活中看到和家人更增進彼此關係。行動起來，趕快手刀報名，數量有限，把握時間~ \n\n【課程大綱】 \n8/8(THU) ：四種溝通姿態 \n目標：學習、練習薩提爾的四種溝通姿態（指責、討好、超理智、打岔） \n具體討論話題: 親子溝通 \n1.理論說明：介紹四種溝通姿態及其特性。\n2.深入解說： 分析每個手勢背後的心理動機和可能的情緒根源。\n3.義工角色扮演體驗，反映真實生活情境。\n4.思與討論：分成小組進行分享，義工分組協助和輔導。 \n作業：使用日常場景記錄溝通資態。 \n目標：理解心理動機和可能的情緒根源，從而避免衝突的有效溝通並提供更多同理心。 \n\n8/15(THU)：四種溝通姿勢 \n目標：學習並練習四種溝通姿勢（責備、討好、超級推理和打斷），並將其應用到實際關係中 \n1.回顧上一節： 快速回顧一下四種溝通姿勢及其特點。\n2.角色扮演：分成小組\, 成員根據實際關係中的問題進行場景模擬，模擬不同的溝通姿態，分析效果. 讓我們的義工分組協助和輔導。\n3.即時回饋：義工在模擬過程中提供即時回饋和指導。\n4.改進和排練：根據回饋調整溝通方式，再次排練。\n5.總結與未來計劃。 \n目標:  制定具體的溝通改進計劃。在情境模擬中練習和應用學到的姿勢。 鼓勵參與者在未來的關係中繼續實踐他們所學到的知識。總結學習成果並制定未來的溝通改善計畫。 \n6.義工領導的支持小組， 在小組中進行追蹤並幫助討論和keep accountability。 \n●總結反思：每位學員總結這兩堂課的學習收穫和個人成長。 \n●Material：總結記錄表、未來計畫範本。 \n\n9/5(THU)：冰山理論 \n目標：介紹目標和框架，建立信任和參與感 \n具體討論話題: 用冰山解讀自我和他人關係 \n1.冰山理論概述: 解釋冰山理論（表面行為與深層情感和信念）。 \n讓小組中的每個人利用他們面臨的具體問題來研究自己的冰山。 讓我們的義工分組協助和指導。 進行小組討論。  \n作業：用好奇心畫出周圍3個人的冰山，以便更了解實際應用 。 \n目標：練習意識、理解和同理心，並使用冰山分析可能性\, 協助冰山理論的實際使用 。 \n\n9/13(FRI)：冰山理論深入探討 \n目標：深入了解冰山理論，探討表面問題和深層原因 \n1.複習冰山模型：透過具體案例展示如何應用冰山理論。\n2.小組活動：參與者分組討論並繪製自己關係中的「冰山」。\n3.分享與回饋：小組代表分享討論結果，讓我們的義工分組協助和指導。\n4.Group discussion集體回饋 。\n5.義工領導的支持小組， 在小組中進行追蹤並幫助討論和keep accountability。 \n●總結反思：每位學員總結這兩堂課的學習收穫和個人成長。 \n作業：當生活中遇到衝突時，用冰山來探索和解釋正在發生的事情。  \n目標：應用於生活情境，以建立更好的理解和認識觀點。 \n\n10/11(FRI) : 情感與視角 \n目標：探討情感在關係中的作用，學習換位思考的重要性 \n具體討論話題: 家庭關係 \n1.情緒辨識練習：幫助參與者辨識並表達自己的情緒。\n2.視角轉換練習：透過角色扮演體驗不同的視角。\n3.小組討論：討論情緒和觀點轉換對關係衝突的影響。 \n●Material：情緒詞彙表、角色扮演卡。 \n\n10/18(FRI) ：期望與需要 \n目標：理解期望與需要在關係中的作用，學習如何表達和調整期望 \n具體討論話題: 家庭關係 \n1.期望與需要講解：解釋兩者的差異與相互影響。\n2.個人反思：參與者寫下自己對關係的期望和需要。\n3.小組分享：分享個人反思，討論調整期望的方法。 \n作業：觀察自己的需求並與期望區分開來。 寫日記並準備好在義工帶領的小組中進行小組討論 \n\n11/7(THU) ：一致性與實踐 \n目標：學習一致性的重要性，制定行動計畫以改善關係 \n具體討論話題: 個人關係中保持真誠與正直。這個主題可以探討如何在個人價值觀、信念和行動之間保持一致，從而促進更健康、更真誠的人際關係 \n1.一致性理論： \n●理解一致性: 定義一致性及其在日常生活中的重要性。 \n●自我意識: 提高自我意識的技巧，認識個人價值觀和信念。 \n●溝通技巧: 表達自我真實性和積極傾聽的策略。 \n●克服障礙: 識別和解決保持一致性的常見障礙，如社會壓力和對評判的恐懼。 \n●實踐練習: 通過角色扮演和現實生活中的情境練習，在各種情況下保持一致性。 \n目標：提高自我覺察，理解自己的需求。 \n2.自我反思： \n●每日反思自己的情感和需求。 \n●使用日記記錄下當天的主要情感事件及其背後的需求。 \n3.情感識別： \n●通過冥想或靜心練習，提高對情感的敏感度。 \n●學習識別不同情感的身體信號和心理反應。 \n4.義工小組跟進小組討論，總結與回饋：總結學習成果，收集回饋，鼓勵持續實踐。 \n\n12/5(THU): 保持覺察並利用一致性來表達需求涉及到理解自己的想法、情感和行為，確保它們真實地對齊。 \n以下是一個結構化的方法來幫助你實現這一目標： \n1.非暴力溝通（NVC）： \n●學習NVC的四個步驟：觀察、感受、需求、請求。 \n●通過角色扮演練習NVC，確保表達清晰和尊重。 \n2.實際練習： \n●在安全的環境中練習表達需求，如小組練習或與親密朋友對話。 \n●記錄每次練習的感受和反饋，不斷改進。 \n3.持續反饋 \n目標：創建三人小組\, 通過反饋不斷優化自我表達。 \n●定期與可信賴的三人小組進行溝通，尋求反饋。 \n●反思和記錄反饋，找出改進的方向。 \n●自我評估: 使用一致性自我評估表，定期評估自己的表現。設置目標，逐步提高一致性和表達能力。 \n通過這些步驟和工具，逐步提高自我覺察，學習並實踐一致性表達，更有效地表達個人需求，避免衝突，並促進更健康、更和諧的關係。 \n \n\n8 Practical Lessons to Improve Mutual Relationships (8 Lessons) \n Speaker: Dancing with the Elephant Volunteer Group \n\nThis course encompasses key psychological theories and practical applications\, and helps participants resolve real-life relationship conflicts through interactive and reflective activities. \n【Course Outline】8/8 (THU): Four Coping Stances \n\nGoal: To learn and practice Satir’s four coping stances (Blaming\, Placating\, Acting Super-Reasonable\, and irrelevant).\nSpecific Discussion Topic: Parent-child communication\nTheoretical Explanation: Introduction to the four coping stances and their characteristics.\nIn-depth Explanation: Analysis of the psychological motivations and possible emotional roots behind each stance.\nVolunteer Role-playing Experience: Learning through encountering real-life situations.\nReflection and Discussion: Small Group sharing\, with volunteer assistance and guidance.\nHomework: Learn how you use coping stances by recording your daily interactions.\nGoal: To understand psychological motivations and possible emotional roots to avoid conflict\, enable effective communication\, and provide more empathy.\n\n8/15 (THU): Four Coping Stances (Extended Version) \n\nGoal: To learn and practice the four coping stances (Blaming\, Placating\, Super-Reasonable\, and Irrelevant) and apply them to real relationships.\n\n\nReview of Previous Session: Quickly review the four coping stances and their characteristics.\nRole-Playing: Divide into small groups. Members simulate scenarios based on real relationship issues\, testing different coping stances to analyze their effectiveness. Volunteers will assist and provide guidance.\n Instant Feedback: Volunteers offer instant feedback and guidance during the simulation process.\nImprovement and Practice: Adjust communication styles based on feedback and practice again.\nConclusion and Future Plans\nObjective: Develop specific plans to improve communications. Practice and apply learned stances in scenario simulations.\nObjective: Encourage participants to continue practicing their new found knowledge in future relationships. Summarize learning outcomes and formulate future communication improvement plans.\nMaterial needed: Cards that list real-life scenarios.\nVolunteer-led support groups will track progress within the groups\, facilitate discussions\, and maintain accountability.\nReflection and Summary: Each participant will summarize their learning outcomes and personal growth from these two sessions.Material needed: Summary log sheet\, template of future plan.\n\n9/5 (FRI): Iceberg Theory \n\nGoal: To introduce objectives and framework; To establish trust and participation.\nSpecific Discussion Topic: Interpreting self and others’ relationships using the iceberg theory.\nOverview of Iceberg Theory: Explain the iceberg theory (Superficial behaviors versus underlying emotions and beliefs). Each member in the group will use specific issues they are facing to examine their own iceberg. Volunteers will assist and guide the groups. Conduct group discussions.\nHomework: Draw the icebergs of three people around you with curiosity to better understand practical applications of the theory..\nObjective: Practice awareness\, understanding\, and empathy. Use iceberg theory to analyze and assist in the practical application of the theory.\n\n9/13 (FRI): In-Depth Exploration of the Iceberg Theory \n\nGoal: To deepen understanding of the iceberg theory; To explore surface issues and underlying causes.\nReview of the Iceberg Model: Use specific cases to demonstrate application of the iceberg theory.\nGroup Activity: Participants will discuss in groups and draw their own “icebergs” in their relationships.\nSharing and Feedback: Group representatives will share discussion results. Volunteers will assist and guide the groups.\nGroup Discussion and Feedback:\nVolunteer-Led Support Groups will track progress\, facilitate discussions\, and maintain accountability within their groups.\nReflection and Summary: Each participant will summarize their learning outcomes and personal growth from these two sessions.\nHomework: When facing conflicts in daily life\, use the iceberg model to explore and explain what is happening.\nObjective: Apply the model to real-life situations to build better understanding and perspective.\n\n10/11 (FRI): Emotions and Perspectives \n\nGoal: To explore the effect of emotions in relationships\, learn the importance of putting yourself in other’s shoes.\nSpecific Discussion Topic: Family relationships\nEmotion Identification Practice: Help participants identify and express their emotions.\nPerspective-Shifting Exercise: Experience different perspectives through role-playing.\nGroup Discussion: Discuss the impact of emotional and perspective shifts on relationship conflicts.\n\nMaterials needed: Emotion vocabulary list\, role-playing cards.\n10/18 (FRI): Expectations and Needs \n\nGoal: To understand the role of expectations and needs in relationships; To learn how to express and adjust expectations.\nSpecific Discussion Topic: Family relationships\nExplanation of Expectations and Needs: Explain the differences between expectations and needs\, and how they influence each other.\nPersonal Reflection: Participants write down their own expectations and needs in relationships.\nGroup Sharing: Share personal reflections and discuss methods to adjust expectations.\nHomework: Observe personal needs and distinguish them from expectations. Write a journal and prepare for group discussions led by volunteers.\n\n11/7 (THU): Congruence and Practice \n\nGoal: To larn the importance of congruencel To develop action plans to improve relationships.\nSpecific Discussion Topic: Maintaining authenticity and honesty in personal relationships. This theme explores how to align personal values\, beliefs\, and actions to foster healthier and more authentic interpersonal relationships.\nCongruence Theory\nUnderstanding congruence: Define congruence and its importance in daily life.\nSelf-awareness: Enhance self-awareness skills\, recognize personal values and beliefs.\nCommunication skills: Strategies to express authenticity and active listening.\nOvercoming obstacles: Identify and resolve common barriers to maintaining congruence\, such as social pressures and fear of criticism.\nPractice exercises: Maintain congruence in various situations through role-playing and practicing real-life scenarios.\nObjective: Increase self-awareness and understand personal needs.\nSelf-Reflection:\n\nReflect daily on emotions and needs of oneself.\nUse a journal to record major emotional events of the day and their underlying needs. \n\nEmotion Identification:\nEnhance sensitivity to emotions through meditation or mindfulness practices.\nLearn to recognize physical signals and psychological responses to different emotions.\nVolunteer-led Follow-up Group discussions\, Summary\, and Feedback:\nSummarize learning outcomes\, gather feedback\, and encourage ongoing practice.\n\n12/5 (THU): Maintaining awareness and utilizing congruence to express needs which involves understanding one’s own thoughts\, emotions\, and behaviors to ensure they align authentically. Here’s a structured approach to help you achieve this goal: \n\nNonviolent Communication (NVC):\nLearn the four steps of NVC: Observation\, Feeling\, Need\, Request.\nPractice NVC through role-playing to ensure clear and respectful expression.\nPractical Exercises:\nPractice expressing needs in a safe environment\, such as group exercises or conversations with close friends.\nRecord feelings and feedback from each practice session\, continuously improving.\nOngoing Feedback\nObjective: Create a group of three people to continually optimize self-expression.\n– Regularly communicate with a trusted group of three for feedback.\n– Reflect on and document feedback to identify areas for improvement.\n– Self-assessment: Use a congruence self-assessment form to regularly evaluate performance. Set goals to gradually improve congruence and expression skills.\nThrough these steps and tools\, gradually increase self-awareness\, learn and practice congruent expression\, more effectively articulate personal needs\, avoid conflicts\, and promote healthier and more harmonious relationships.\nNotice\n\nPlease note that classes in August\, November\, and December are on Thursdays\, while classes in September and October are on Fridays.\nDaylight Saving Time begins at 2:00 AM on November 3rd (Sunday). Asian participants\, please take note of the class time changes. \n\n  \n 
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SUMMARY:《重啟人生的17個練習》讀書會（8堂）
DESCRIPTION:  \n\n【注意事項】 美西9/16休息一次 \n\n為什麼知道很多身心靈理論，和練習方法，也買了很多書，大家講到某個狀態時，都能分析出，這是哪個議題卡關，但是我自己的生活依然沒有改變？為什麼上了很多課，還是卡住？ \n改變，來自實做練習。 \n這次八堂課的《重啟人生的17個練習》讀書會，特別邀請作者羅志仲帶著大家一起進行書中的練習。有老師帶領，有上課的伙伴一起，讓自己更有動力起而行！ \n志仲老師長年研究薩提爾，也做薩提爾對話教學，累積大量自我覺察、自我對話、自我照顧的實戰經驗，在《重啟人生的17個練習》中，志仲老師提到自己如何從低谷中走出來，經歷長期失業、父子失和、身心失調，如何走到現在。 \n如果你也有類似的困擾，相信你也可以用其中的方式找到方向，產生改變。一起來練習吧！ \n\n【課程簡介】 \n《重啟人生的17個練習》一書，除了敘述作者羅志仲如何從長期失業、父子失和、身心失調的過程中走出來，也詳細介紹17個能改變內在與人生的實用方法。 \n本課程由作者親自帶領，將聚焦在「如何轉化過往的生命經驗」這個主題，除了深入講述書中內容，也會手把手帶你活用書中的8個練習，讓你在遇到挫折、困頓時能自助、自救。 \n\n【上課進度】 \nW1，練習2：生平大小事清單 \nW2，練習3：資源清單 \nW3，練習5：自我欣賞清單 \nW4，練習6：寫信給小時候的自己 \nW5，練習7：當年的你寫信給現在的你 \nW6，練習8：寫信給貴人 \nW7，練習9：寫信給父母 \nW8，練習15：情緒清單 \n\n【講師簡介】 \n羅志仲 \n清華大學中文博士，人際溝通講師、身心靈工作者，著有《重啟人生的17個練習》。常應邀至海內外演講、帶領工作坊，累計逾千場。 \n \n\n’17 Exercises to Restart Your Life’ Book Club (8 Sessions)\nSpeaker: Luo Zhizhong \n【Course Description】\nThe book “17 Exercises to Restart Your Life” not only tells the story of how the author Luo Zhizhong overcame long-term unemployment\, a broken relationship with his father\, and physical and mental problems\, but also provides detailed introductions of 17 practical methods that can change your inner self and your life.\nThis course will be led by the author himself and will focus on the topic of “how to transform past life experiences”. In addition to in-depth explanations of the content of the book\, the author will also guide you step by step on how to apply the 8 exercises in the book\, so that you can help yourself and overcome setbacks and difficulties.\nCourse Schedule \nWeek 1: Exercise 2: List of Major and Minor Events in Life\nWeek 2: Exercise 3: Resource List\nWeek 3: Exercise 5: Self-Appreciation List\nWeek 4: Exercise 6: Write a Letter to Your Childhood Self\nWeek 5: Exercise 7: Your Past Self Writes a Letter to the Current Self\nWeek 6: Exercise 8: Write a Letter to Your Benefactor\nWeek 7: Exercise 9: Write a Letter to Your Parents\nWeek 8: Exercise 15: Emotion List \n【Instructor Introduction】\nLuo Zhizhong\nHe has a Ph.D. of Chinese Literature from National Tsing Hua University. He is a lecturer in interpersonal communication\, a mind-body-spirit instructor\, and the author of “17 Exercises to Restart Your Life.” He is frequently invited to give lectures and to lead workshops both domestically and internationally\, accumulating over a thousand sessions.
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SUMMARY:【錄影回看】父親節對話：李崇建VS羅志仲：給曾受父愛創傷的你 ─ 爸，你愛我嗎？（單堂）
DESCRIPTION:錄影回放預購期限延長： \n美西：即日起 ~ 9/30(MON) 23:00 止 \n美東：即日起 ~ 10/01 (TUE) 02:00 止 \n亞洲：即日起 ~10/01 (TUE) 14:00止 \n\n錄影回放期間： \n美西(GMT -7)：9/24(TUE) 23:00 起 ~ 10/31(THU) 23:00止 \n美東(GMT -4)：9/24(WED) 02:00 起 ~ 10/31(THU) 02:00 止 \n亞洲(GMT+8)：9/25(WED) 14:00 起 ~ 11/1(FRI)  14:00止 \n\n家家有本難唸的經，與父親之間的衝突或冷漠，不知是否也是你的課題? \n試給自己給爸爸一份特別的禮物：與父親建立更深層次的情感連結。 \n來聽聽過來人怎麼說。 \n舞象邀請到薩提爾界對話領域裡面的兩位重量級導師：李崇建跟羅志仲來對談。 \n崇建老師曾在書中多次提及與父親的關係。十歲後母親離開家，獨留父親拉拔四個小孩長大，身為長子的崇建老師，多次提及自己的「頑劣不堪」。儘管父親接納，但父子間卻還是經常充滿火藥味。直到他學習了薩提爾，開始安頓身心，父子關係才漸漸走向崇建老師希望的樣貌。 \n志仲老師也曾多次公開分享，自己與父親曾冷戰十八年不說話，直到學習薩提爾跟托勒後，才有機會漸漸化解冰山。在父親臨終前最後一段經常來往加護病房跟家裡的日子裡，更是運用薩提爾與托勒的方法陪伴自己，才有辦法在各種壓力與情緒中自處。 \n兩位薩體爾對話導師也曾歷經過這些不圓滿的關係，但透過自己在薩提爾的修練漸漸改變了家庭圖像，能夠有更一致性的愛的表達。 \n我們來聽聽兩位老師來分享他們的生命故事，或許也能為我們自己的生命照進一線曙光。 \n\n【課程大綱】 \n天下無不愛兒女的父母，但是，真實的生活中，你曾經受到來自父親的傷害嗎？ \n會不會常常懷疑，我是爸爸親生的嗎？爸爸真的愛我嗎？ \n兩位深入學習薩提爾的老師，如何以薩提爾模式療癒受傷的自己，如何與父親和解，找到彼此的愛與和諧？ \n邀請大家一起來聆聽。 \n \n\n【講師簡介】\n李崇建 \n香港自然學校、馬來西亞德信學校、馬來西亞小樹成長園教育顧問，以及馬來西亞薩提爾全人發展協會顧問、台灣學思達教育基金會董事及美國舞象基金會長期合作講師。\n東海大學中文系畢業。曾做過泥水匠、搬運工人、酒店服務生，考了5次大學才好不容易考上東海大學中文系，十歲母親離開家庭，在原生家庭傷痕累累長大，家庭的破碎刻畫著他的童年，形成老師獨特的經驗與人格，二十年薩提爾家族治療學派的學習，及與上萬個學生、家長、個人的對談經驗，讓崇建老師成為華人世界最傳奇的薩提爾冰山對話的推手，他在華人世界協助許多深陷相處窒礙的家庭一步一步走出難關，影響這些家庭和解改變，個人成長，夫妻關係和諧。 \n \n\n【講師介紹】\n羅志仲 \n清華大學中文博士。\n教育工作者，經常應邀至海內外演講、帶領工作坊、讀書會，累計逾千場。\n研讀艾克哈特‧托勒書籍許久，將托勒書中概念運用在日常生活中，人生從此翻轉改變受益頗大，故開始演講分享托勒的理念。 \n \n\n【Course Outline】 \nThere are no parents in the world who don’t love their children. However\, in real life\, have you ever been hurt by your father? Do you often wonder：Am I really my father’s biological child? Does my father really love me? \nTwo teachers who have deeply studied the Satir model will share how they used it to heal their wounded selves\, reconcile with their fathers\, and find mutual love and harmony. We invite everyone to come and listen. \n\n【Instructor Introduction】 \nLi Chongjian \n– Education consultant for Hong Kong Natural School\, Malaysia Dexin School\, and Malaysia Xiaoshu Growth Garden \n– Consultant for the Satir Holistic Development Association of Malaysia \n– Board member of the Taiwan XueSiDa (Learn，Think， Achieve) Education Foundation \n– Long-term lecturer with the American Dancing With the Elephant Foundation \nLi Chongjian graduated from the Chinese Department of Tunghai University. He has worked as a mason\, a porter\, and a hotel waiter. After five attempts\, he finally entered Tunghai University. His mother left the family when he was ten\, and he grew up in a broken home with deep scars. This difficult childhood shaped his unique experiences and personality. With twenty years of studying the Satir family therapy model and conversations with thousands of students\, parents\, and individuals\, Li Chongjian has become a legendary advocate of Satir’s iceberg dialogue in the Chinese-speaking world. He has helped many families struggling with relationship issues to step by step overcome difficulties\, leading to family reconciliation\, personal growth\, and harmonious marital relationships. \n\n【Instructor Introduction】 \nLuo Zhizhong \n– Ph.D. in Chinese Literature from Tsinghua University \n– Educator frequently invited to give lectures\, lead workshops\, and book clubs both domestically and internationally\, with over a thousand sessions accumulated \n Since 2013\, he has been immersed in the works of Tolle\, having read each book over a hundred times\, and has consistently applied the teachings from these books into his life. His life has been greatly transformed by the practices. Henceforth\, he began to spread the teachings  in numerous places. He is also the author of 17 Practices to Reset Life.  \n\n 
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