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SUMMARY:增進彼此關係的8堂實踐課（8堂）
DESCRIPTION:【注意事項】 \n▲請留意，8月、9/5、11月、12月課程在(週四)；9/13、10月課程在(週五)。 \n▲11/3(日)2:00冬令時間開始，請亞洲學員留意上課時間(延後一小時)。 \n▲免費課程-無提供錄影回放及課程講義。 \n\n報名截止時間: 美西2024/12/5-18:00止 ；亞洲2024/12/6-10:00止。 \n\n和孩子的對話，和另一半的互動，和父母的關係，在人際互動中，有卡關嗎？ \n學了一些心理學理論，但問題沒什麼改善，覺得學這些沒什麼用。 \n真的「沒用」，就沒用。 \n如果沒有去「使用」這些理論方法，只是停留在頭腦去理解，生活的確不會改變。 \n很多人都能背出薩提爾的四種「應對姿態」，也知道「薩提冰山」的每一層。 \n但是，你知道自己最常出現的應對姿態是什麼嗎？你的家人又是如何應對你？ \n這樣的應對姿態下的冰山底層的信念(觀點)、期待等又各是什麼嗎？ \n你能夠帶著覺察靈活地運用各種「應對姿態」嗎？或是總是被慣性驅使，而只展現某種樣貌嗎？ \n你了解自己嗎？常常想做，但是又做不同。我自己內在發生了什麼？ \n如果以上也是你的疑問，好消息來了， \n舞象基金會特別推出「增進彼此關係的8堂實踐課」，八堂課有不同主題，每次課程皆有理論和實做。透過角色扮演，實際模疑關係中的互動狀況，從中覺察反思，讓我們更了解自己，經過練習，重新選擇，調整成最適合當下情境的行為，讓生活真正發生轉變。 \n八堂課課程內容非常豐富，從四種姿態的成因，到練習如何調整和運用。畫出自己和他人的冰山，並藉此探索冰山裡的影響脈絡。覺察自己的在關係中的角色，練習換位思考。練習覺察自己在情境中的期望和需要，是否表達了是否被滿足了。練習覺察反思自己的行為和動機是否一致。練習非暴力溝通，表達自己的感受，並且對方核對。 \n八堂課，讓你把理論「用」起來，在生活中看到和家人更增進彼此關係。行動起來，趕快手刀報名，數量有限，把握時間~ \n\n【課程大綱】 \n8/8(THU) ：四種溝通姿態 \n目標：學習、練習薩提爾的四種溝通姿態（指責、討好、超理智、打岔） \n具體討論話題: 親子溝通 \n1.理論說明：介紹四種溝通姿態及其特性。\n2.深入解說： 分析每個手勢背後的心理動機和可能的情緒根源。\n3.義工角色扮演體驗，反映真實生活情境。\n4.思與討論：分成小組進行分享，義工分組協助和輔導。 \n作業：使用日常場景記錄溝通資態。 \n目標：理解心理動機和可能的情緒根源，從而避免衝突的有效溝通並提供更多同理心。 \n\n8/15(THU)：四種溝通姿勢 \n目標：學習並練習四種溝通姿勢（責備、討好、超級推理和打斷），並將其應用到實際關係中 \n1.回顧上一節： 快速回顧一下四種溝通姿勢及其特點。\n2.角色扮演：分成小組\, 成員根據實際關係中的問題進行場景模擬，模擬不同的溝通姿態，分析效果. 讓我們的義工分組協助和輔導。\n3.即時回饋：義工在模擬過程中提供即時回饋和指導。\n4.改進和排練：根據回饋調整溝通方式，再次排練。\n5.總結與未來計劃。 \n目標:  制定具體的溝通改進計劃。在情境模擬中練習和應用學到的姿勢。 鼓勵參與者在未來的關係中繼續實踐他們所學到的知識。總結學習成果並制定未來的溝通改善計畫。 \n6.義工領導的支持小組， 在小組中進行追蹤並幫助討論和keep accountability。 \n●總結反思：每位學員總結這兩堂課的學習收穫和個人成長。 \n●Material：總結記錄表、未來計畫範本。 \n\n9/5(THU)：冰山理論 \n目標：介紹目標和框架，建立信任和參與感 \n具體討論話題: 用冰山解讀自我和他人關係 \n1.冰山理論概述: 解釋冰山理論（表面行為與深層情感和信念）。 \n讓小組中的每個人利用他們面臨的具體問題來研究自己的冰山。 讓我們的義工分組協助和指導。 進行小組討論。  \n作業：用好奇心畫出周圍3個人的冰山，以便更了解實際應用 。 \n目標：練習意識、理解和同理心，並使用冰山分析可能性\, 協助冰山理論的實際使用 。 \n\n9/13(FRI)：冰山理論深入探討 \n目標：深入了解冰山理論，探討表面問題和深層原因 \n1.複習冰山模型：透過具體案例展示如何應用冰山理論。\n2.小組活動：參與者分組討論並繪製自己關係中的「冰山」。\n3.分享與回饋：小組代表分享討論結果，讓我們的義工分組協助和指導。\n4.Group discussion集體回饋 。\n5.義工領導的支持小組， 在小組中進行追蹤並幫助討論和keep accountability。 \n●總結反思：每位學員總結這兩堂課的學習收穫和個人成長。 \n作業：當生活中遇到衝突時，用冰山來探索和解釋正在發生的事情。  \n目標：應用於生活情境，以建立更好的理解和認識觀點。 \n\n10/11(FRI) : 情感與視角 \n目標：探討情感在關係中的作用，學習換位思考的重要性 \n具體討論話題: 家庭關係 \n1.情緒辨識練習：幫助參與者辨識並表達自己的情緒。\n2.視角轉換練習：透過角色扮演體驗不同的視角。\n3.小組討論：討論情緒和觀點轉換對關係衝突的影響。 \n●Material：情緒詞彙表、角色扮演卡。 \n\n10/18(FRI) ：期望與需要 \n目標：理解期望與需要在關係中的作用，學習如何表達和調整期望 \n具體討論話題: 家庭關係 \n1.期望與需要講解：解釋兩者的差異與相互影響。\n2.個人反思：參與者寫下自己對關係的期望和需要。\n3.小組分享：分享個人反思，討論調整期望的方法。 \n作業：觀察自己的需求並與期望區分開來。 寫日記並準備好在義工帶領的小組中進行小組討論 \n\n11/7(THU) ：一致性與實踐 \n目標：學習一致性的重要性，制定行動計畫以改善關係 \n具體討論話題: 個人關係中保持真誠與正直。這個主題可以探討如何在個人價值觀、信念和行動之間保持一致，從而促進更健康、更真誠的人際關係 \n1.一致性理論： \n●理解一致性: 定義一致性及其在日常生活中的重要性。 \n●自我意識: 提高自我意識的技巧，認識個人價值觀和信念。 \n●溝通技巧: 表達自我真實性和積極傾聽的策略。 \n●克服障礙: 識別和解決保持一致性的常見障礙，如社會壓力和對評判的恐懼。 \n●實踐練習: 通過角色扮演和現實生活中的情境練習，在各種情況下保持一致性。 \n目標：提高自我覺察，理解自己的需求。 \n2.自我反思： \n●每日反思自己的情感和需求。 \n●使用日記記錄下當天的主要情感事件及其背後的需求。 \n3.情感識別： \n●通過冥想或靜心練習，提高對情感的敏感度。 \n●學習識別不同情感的身體信號和心理反應。 \n4.義工小組跟進小組討論，總結與回饋：總結學習成果，收集回饋，鼓勵持續實踐。 \n\n12/5(THU): 保持覺察並利用一致性來表達需求涉及到理解自己的想法、情感和行為，確保它們真實地對齊。 \n以下是一個結構化的方法來幫助你實現這一目標： \n1.非暴力溝通（NVC）： \n●學習NVC的四個步驟：觀察、感受、需求、請求。 \n●通過角色扮演練習NVC，確保表達清晰和尊重。 \n2.實際練習： \n●在安全的環境中練習表達需求，如小組練習或與親密朋友對話。 \n●記錄每次練習的感受和反饋，不斷改進。 \n3.持續反饋 \n目標：創建三人小組\, 通過反饋不斷優化自我表達。 \n●定期與可信賴的三人小組進行溝通，尋求反饋。 \n●反思和記錄反饋，找出改進的方向。 \n●自我評估: 使用一致性自我評估表，定期評估自己的表現。設置目標，逐步提高一致性和表達能力。 \n通過這些步驟和工具，逐步提高自我覺察，學習並實踐一致性表達，更有效地表達個人需求，避免衝突，並促進更健康、更和諧的關係。 \n \n\n8 Practical Lessons to Improve Mutual Relationships (8 Lessons) \n Speaker: Dancing with the Elephant Volunteer Group \n\nThis course encompasses key psychological theories and practical applications\, and helps participants resolve real-life relationship conflicts through interactive and reflective activities. \n【Course Outline】8/8 (THU): Four Coping Stances \n\nGoal: To learn and practice Satir’s four coping stances (Blaming\, Placating\, Acting Super-Reasonable\, and irrelevant).\nSpecific Discussion Topic: Parent-child communication\nTheoretical Explanation: Introduction to the four coping stances and their characteristics.\nIn-depth Explanation: Analysis of the psychological motivations and possible emotional roots behind each stance.\nVolunteer Role-playing Experience: Learning through encountering real-life situations.\nReflection and Discussion: Small Group sharing\, with volunteer assistance and guidance.\nHomework: Learn how you use coping stances by recording your daily interactions.\nGoal: To understand psychological motivations and possible emotional roots to avoid conflict\, enable effective communication\, and provide more empathy.\n\n8/15 (THU): Four Coping Stances (Extended Version) \n\nGoal: To learn and practice the four coping stances (Blaming\, Placating\, Super-Reasonable\, and Irrelevant) and apply them to real relationships.\n\n\nReview of Previous Session: Quickly review the four coping stances and their characteristics.\nRole-Playing: Divide into small groups. Members simulate scenarios based on real relationship issues\, testing different coping stances to analyze their effectiveness. Volunteers will assist and provide guidance.\n Instant Feedback: Volunteers offer instant feedback and guidance during the simulation process.\nImprovement and Practice: Adjust communication styles based on feedback and practice again.\nConclusion and Future Plans\nObjective: Develop specific plans to improve communications. Practice and apply learned stances in scenario simulations.\nObjective: Encourage participants to continue practicing their new found knowledge in future relationships. Summarize learning outcomes and formulate future communication improvement plans.\nMaterial needed: Cards that list real-life scenarios.\nVolunteer-led support groups will track progress within the groups\, facilitate discussions\, and maintain accountability.\nReflection and Summary: Each participant will summarize their learning outcomes and personal growth from these two sessions.Material needed: Summary log sheet\, template of future plan.\n\n9/5 (FRI): Iceberg Theory \n\nGoal: To introduce objectives and framework; To establish trust and participation.\nSpecific Discussion Topic: Interpreting self and others’ relationships using the iceberg theory.\nOverview of Iceberg Theory: Explain the iceberg theory (Superficial behaviors versus underlying emotions and beliefs). Each member in the group will use specific issues they are facing to examine their own iceberg. Volunteers will assist and guide the groups. Conduct group discussions.\nHomework: Draw the icebergs of three people around you with curiosity to better understand practical applications of the theory..\nObjective: Practice awareness\, understanding\, and empathy. Use iceberg theory to analyze and assist in the practical application of the theory.\n\n9/13 (FRI): In-Depth Exploration of the Iceberg Theory \n\nGoal: To deepen understanding of the iceberg theory; To explore surface issues and underlying causes.\nReview of the Iceberg Model: Use specific cases to demonstrate application of the iceberg theory.\nGroup Activity: Participants will discuss in groups and draw their own “icebergs” in their relationships.\nSharing and Feedback: Group representatives will share discussion results. Volunteers will assist and guide the groups.\nGroup Discussion and Feedback:\nVolunteer-Led Support Groups will track progress\, facilitate discussions\, and maintain accountability within their groups.\nReflection and Summary: Each participant will summarize their learning outcomes and personal growth from these two sessions.\nHomework: When facing conflicts in daily life\, use the iceberg model to explore and explain what is happening.\nObjective: Apply the model to real-life situations to build better understanding and perspective.\n\n10/11 (FRI): Emotions and Perspectives \n\nGoal: To explore the effect of emotions in relationships\, learn the importance of putting yourself in other’s shoes.\nSpecific Discussion Topic: Family relationships\nEmotion Identification Practice: Help participants identify and express their emotions.\nPerspective-Shifting Exercise: Experience different perspectives through role-playing.\nGroup Discussion: Discuss the impact of emotional and perspective shifts on relationship conflicts.\n\nMaterials needed: Emotion vocabulary list\, role-playing cards.\n10/18 (FRI): Expectations and Needs \n\nGoal: To understand the role of expectations and needs in relationships; To learn how to express and adjust expectations.\nSpecific Discussion Topic: Family relationships\nExplanation of Expectations and Needs: Explain the differences between expectations and needs\, and how they influence each other.\nPersonal Reflection: Participants write down their own expectations and needs in relationships.\nGroup Sharing: Share personal reflections and discuss methods to adjust expectations.\nHomework: Observe personal needs and distinguish them from expectations. Write a journal and prepare for group discussions led by volunteers.\n\n11/7 (THU): Congruence and Practice \n\nGoal: To larn the importance of congruencel To develop action plans to improve relationships.\nSpecific Discussion Topic: Maintaining authenticity and honesty in personal relationships. This theme explores how to align personal values\, beliefs\, and actions to foster healthier and more authentic interpersonal relationships.\nCongruence Theory\nUnderstanding congruence: Define congruence and its importance in daily life.\nSelf-awareness: Enhance self-awareness skills\, recognize personal values and beliefs.\nCommunication skills: Strategies to express authenticity and active listening.\nOvercoming obstacles: Identify and resolve common barriers to maintaining congruence\, such as social pressures and fear of criticism.\nPractice exercises: Maintain congruence in various situations through role-playing and practicing real-life scenarios.\nObjective: Increase self-awareness and understand personal needs.\nSelf-Reflection:\n\nReflect daily on emotions and needs of oneself.\nUse a journal to record major emotional events of the day and their underlying needs. \n\nEmotion Identification:\nEnhance sensitivity to emotions through meditation or mindfulness practices.\nLearn to recognize physical signals and psychological responses to different emotions.\nVolunteer-led Follow-up Group discussions\, Summary\, and Feedback:\nSummarize learning outcomes\, gather feedback\, and encourage ongoing practice.\n\n12/5 (THU): Maintaining awareness and utilizing congruence to express needs which involves understanding one’s own thoughts\, emotions\, and behaviors to ensure they align authentically. Here’s a structured approach to help you achieve this goal: \n\nNonviolent Communication (NVC):\nLearn the four steps of NVC: Observation\, Feeling\, Need\, Request.\nPractice NVC through role-playing to ensure clear and respectful expression.\nPractical Exercises:\nPractice expressing needs in a safe environment\, such as group exercises or conversations with close friends.\nRecord feelings and feedback from each practice session\, continuously improving.\nOngoing Feedback\nObjective: Create a group of three people to continually optimize self-expression.\n– Regularly communicate with a trusted group of three for feedback.\n– Reflect on and document feedback to identify areas for improvement.\n– Self-assessment: Use a congruence self-assessment form to regularly evaluate performance. Set goals to gradually improve congruence and expression skills.\nThrough these steps and tools\, gradually increase self-awareness\, learn and practice congruent expression\, more effectively articulate personal needs\, avoid conflicts\, and promote healthier and more harmonious relationships.\nNotice\n\nPlease note that classes in August\, November\, and December are on Thursdays\, while classes in September and October are on Fridays.\nDaylight Saving Time begins at 2:00 AM on November 3rd (Sunday). Asian participants\, please take note of the class time changes. \n\n  \n 
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SUMMARY:【錄影回看】自我連結與連結他人：薩提爾冰山對話全面解析、體驗與練習(中階) 4堂
DESCRIPTION:錄影回放購課期限： \n美西：即日起 ~ 10/16 (WED) 23:00 止 \n美東：即日起 ~ 10/17 (THU) 02:00 止 \n亞洲：即日起 ~ 10/17(THU) 14:00止 \n\n錄影回放期間： \n美西(GMT -7)：2024/10/17(THU) 23:00 起 ~2025/ 1/16(THU) 23:00止 \n美東(GMT -4)：2024/10/18(FRI) 02:00 起 ~2025/ 1/17(FRI) 02:00 止 \n亞洲(GMT+8)：2024/10/18(FRI)14:00 起 ~2025/ 1/17(FRI) 15:00止 \n\n此錄影回放為–初階2024.8月份，中階2023.7月份課程，提供已上過課程的學員參考。 \n\n【自我連結與連結他人-中階】好奇如何在冰山各層次展開 \n第一堂課\n冰山提問：四種切入冰山的好奇路徑：「事件與應對」，「感受、期待與回溯」，航向目標「渴望」 \n第二堂課\n冰山提問的中段路徑：如何在感受中、期待中、回溯中工作，航向「渴望」 \n第三堂課\n冰山對話全展開：如何在每一層冰山輕敲，連結渴望，喚醒內在資源 \n第四堂課\n應對衝突、轉換觀點、導入渴望、新表達與核對 \n \n\n【課程目標】\n冰山提問：針對三種切入好奇的新路徑：感受、期待與回溯，引導學員的冰山提問，航向最終目標-渴望。課程進行中，老師將示範如何表達感受、期待和渴望以及「自我核對」。 \n\n【課程簡介】\n介紹薩提爾模式冰山理論的概念，以冰山對話為基礎，並深入內在冰山的認識與探索，提升自我與自我(自我連結，覺察自己，回應自己，身心得到健康與和諧)、自我與他人(從覺察自己，到體驗到尊重一個人、關懷一個人，對人寬闊的接納與愛，進而引導出他人的內在渴望與能量)的內在歷程的瞭解、安頓、連結與活化，進而瞭解自我與他人關係的互動、溝通模式。 \n\n【講師簡介】 \n張輝誠 \n台灣師大文學博士，台北市中山女高教師，文學作家。\n文學作品曾獲時報文學獎、梁實秋文學獎等，著有散文集《相忘於江湖》、《我的心肝阿母》、《離別賦》、《毓老真精神》。\n教學成就曾榮獲教育部教學卓越獎金質獎，2013年9月開始提倡「學思達教學法」，是台灣教育圈「隨時開放教室」第一人；組建臉書「學思達教學社群」，短短一年之間，超過全台兩萬名老師、家長、學生、學者進行專業教學討論；又在誠致教育基金會的資助之下建立「學思達教學法分享平台」，打破校際藩籬，共享教學講義。受邀至全台各地分享學思達教學法，更受邀至新加坡、山東、南京、澳門等地分享，為華人世界的教育革新寫下新頁。 \n \n\nVideo recording viewing registration deadline： \nPST：now ~ 10/16 (WED) 23:00  \nEST：now ~ 10/17 (THU) 02:00  \nAsia：now ~ 10/17(THU) 14:00 \n\nVideo recording viewing timeline： \nPST(GMT -7)：2024/10/17(THU) 23:00  ~2025/ 1/16(THU) 23:00 \nEST(GMT -4)：2024/10/18(FRI) 02:00  ~2025/ 1/17(FRI) 02:00  \nAsia(GMT+8)：2024/10/18(FRI)14:00  ~2025/ 1/17(FRI) 15:00 \n\n(Connection to Self and Others- Intermediate) How to start to be curious at all levels of iceberg \nFirst session: Questions regarding iceberg. Four paths of curiosity to get into iceberg. “Incidence and Response”\, “Feelings\, Expectations\, and Backtracking” to sail towards “Longing”   \nSecond session: The intermediate path in questions regarding iceberg. How to sail towards “Longing” through working on feelings\, expectations\, and backtracking. \nThird session: Fully expanding iceberg dialogue. How to lightly knock on each level of iceberg\, to connect with longing\, and to awaken the inner resources.  \nFourth session: Responding to confrontation\, transforming mindset\, guiding towards longing\, and expressing again and verifying. \n\nIntermediate Level Course Outline \n【Course Objectives】 \nIceberg questioning: Three new paths of curiosity: Sensation\, Expectation\, and Retrospection. Heading towards the goal: Desires. \n\n【Course Outline】 \nIntroduce the concept of Satir Model Iceberg theory; Engage in dialogues using the iceberg theory; Delve into the understanding and exploration of one’s own inner iceberg to better understand the inner process of one’s self (self-connection\, self-awareness\, self-response\, physical and mental health and harmony)\, and one’s self in relation with others (from self-awareness to experiencing respect for a person\, caring for a person\, embracing and loving a person\, and then guiding the inner desires and energy of others); Further understand the interaction and communication modes of oneself with others. \n\n【Course Delivery Method】 \n\n Online delivery method\, through video conferencing room.\n Google Slides for online operations and interactions (Up to eight participants will have access to the main operation of Google Slides\, while other attendees can individually download practice materials).\n The course will include presentations\, videos\, tasks\, extensive dialogue exercises\, and real-life role-playing.\n\n\nOur instructor:  \nDr. Huicheng Chang\nDr. Chang is a literature Ph.D. from National Taiwan Normal University and teacher at Taipei City Zhongshan Girls High School.  He is also a literature writer\, and  his works have won awards such as the Times Literary Award and the Liang Shih-chiu Literary Award.  His prose collections include “Xiang Wang Yu Jianghu ”\, “My Beloved Mother”\, “The Parting Elegy”\, and “The Elder Yu’s True spirits”. \nDr. Chang has achieved great success in teaching\, winning the Department of Education’s Teaching Excellence Award and introducing “ShareStart Teaching Method” in September 2013.  He was the trailblazer to advocate for an “open classroom” teaching approach.  He established “Sharestart Teaching Community” on Facebook\, where more than 20\,000 teachers\, parents\, students and scholars engage in professional teaching discussions.  With support from the ChengZhi Education Foundation\, they built a platform for “Sharestart”\, which broke down inter-school barriers and allowed for sharing teaching materials.  Dr. Chang has been invited to share the “Sharestart” teaching methods in places throughout Taiwan\, Singapore\, Shandong\, Nanjing\, and Macau\, paving the way for educational reform in the Chinese-speaking world. \n\n 
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SUMMARY:【錄影回看】自我連結與連結他人：薩提爾冰山對話全面解析、體驗與練習(初階) 4堂
DESCRIPTION:錄影回放購課期限： \n美西：即日起 ~ 10/16 (WED) 23:00 止 \n美東：即日起 ~ 10/17 (THU) 02:00 止 \n亞洲：即日起 ~ 10/17(THU) 14:00止 \n\n錄影回放期間： \n美西(GMT -7)：2024/10/17(THU) 23:00 起 ~2025/ 1/16(THU) 23:00止 \n美東(GMT -4)：2024/10/18(FRI) 02:00 起 ~2025/ 1/17(FRI) 02:00 止 \n亞洲(GMT+8)：2024/10/18(FRI)14:00 起 ~2025/ 1/17(FRI) 15:00止 \n\n此錄影回放為–初階2024.8月份，中階2023.7月份課程，提供已上過課程的學員參考。 \n\n歐普拉 (Oprah Winfrey)是美國著名的電視主持人，她的訪談風格以同理心和真誠著稱，因為她擅於連結自己的內心世界，並且公開分享自己的成長經歷和情感掙扎，包括童年的貧困和創傷。歐普拉通過轉化傷口變成智慧，建立了深刻的自我覺察，這使她能夠真誠地與觀眾連結，也讓受訪者感到被理解和接納。 \n連結自己涉及深入了解和接納自己的內在世界，包括情感、渴望、價值觀和信念。有時候我們對自己的情感和行為背後的原因不夠了解，這些盲點會阻礙自我連結。另外，來自社會、家庭和工作的壓力和期望可能會讓我們忽視自己的內在需求和感受，還有未解決的過去經歷也會影響我們對自我認知和接納。由此可知，連結自己是一門辛苦的人生必修課，神奇的是，它卻很甜美，因為，「連結」是我們存在的原因。 \n張輝誠老師是學思達教育基金會的創辦人和教學總監。在學習蕯提爾模式後，他將薩提爾的理念融入他創立的學思達教學模式中，而有更好的成效。這門課程將通過薩提爾冰山對話模式，包含了理論講解與實際練習，幫助學員深入理解並掌握自我覺察與表達的技巧，從而促進自我轉化與內在一致性，提升自我連結與人際溝通能力。這是一場陪伴你探索內在世界的旅程，歡迎一起來體驗！ \n\n【自我連結與連結他人-初階】 \n一、 轉化的起點：自我覺察與新選擇。(概說、應對姿態、一致性；感受、6A、聖多那釋放法新選擇) \n二、 轉化的能量與體驗：連結自我渴望(愛、接納、價值、自由)。 \n三、 轉化的連動：打開觀點，接納期待落空。 \n四、 轉化的新狀態：一致性。內在覺察與新表達方式(渴望、感受)。 \n \n\n【講師簡介】 \n張輝誠 \n台灣師大文學博士，台北市中山女高教師，文學作家。 \n文學作品曾獲時報文學獎、梁實秋文學獎等，著有散文集《相忘於江湖》、《我的心肝阿母》、《離別賦》、《毓老真精神》。 \n教學成就曾榮獲教育部教學卓越獎金質獎，北京全人教育獎首獎，2013年9月開始提倡「學思達教學法」，是台灣教育圈「隨時開放教室」第一人；組建臉書「學思達教學社群」，短短一年之間，超過全台兩萬名老師、家長、學生、學者進行專業教學討論；又在誠致教育基金會的資助之下建立「學思達教學法分享平台」，打破校際藩籬，共享教學講義。受邀至全台各地分享學思達教學法，更受邀至新加坡、山東、南京、澳門等地分享，為華人世界的教育革新寫下新頁。 \n2014年起，張輝誠老師邀請李崇建老師將薩提爾導入學思達，為方便學思達老師於課堂上更能實際運用薩提爾冰山對話處理學生各種問題，與崇建老師合著《教室裡的對話練習》，策劃《薩提爾的縱深對話》，自著《家庭裡的對話練習》，都與薩體爾冰山對話相關。 \n \n\nTimeline to register for these videos replay：\nPST：now ~ 10/16 (WED) 23:00 \nEST：now ~ 10/17 (THU) 02:00 \nAsia：now ~ 10/17(THU) 14:00 \n\nTimeline to replay these videos：\nPST(GMT -7)：2024/10/17(THU) 23:00 ~2025/ 1/16(THU) 23:00\nEST(GMT -4)：2024/10/18(FRI) 02:00 ~2025/ 1/17(FRI) 02:00 \n亞洲(GMT+8)：2024/10/18(FRI)14:00 ~2025/ 1/17(FRI) 15:00 \n\n【Course Outline】\nThe Starting Point of Transformation: Self-awareness and the Recognition of New Choices (Overview\, Coping Stances\, Consistency\, Feelings\, 6A\, New Options for Sedona Method)\nThe Energy and Experience of Transformation: Connecting with Self Yearnings (Love\, Acceptance\, Value\, Freedom).\nThe Steps of Transformation: Opening up Perspectives\, Embracing Disappointed Expectations.\nNew States after Transformation: Congruence. Inner Awareness and New Ways of Expression (Desires\, Feelings). \n\nOur instructor:\nDr. Huicheng Chang\nDr. Chang is a literature Ph.D. from National Taiwan Normal University and teacher at Taipei City Zhongshan Girls High School. He is also a literature writer\, and his works have won awards such as the Times Literary Award and the Liang Shih-chiu Literary Award. His prose collections include “Xiang Wang Yu Jianghu ”\, “My Beloved Mother”\, “The Parting Elegy”\, and “The Elder Yu’s True spirits”.\nDr. Chang has achieved great success in teaching\, winning the Department of Education’s Teaching Excellence Award and introducing “ShareStart Teaching Method” in September 2013. He was the trailblazer to advocate for an “open classroom” teaching approach. He established “Sharestart Teaching Community” on Facebook\, where more than 20\,000 teachers\, parents\, students and scholars engage in professional teaching discussions. With support from the ChengZhi Education Foundation\, they built a platform for “Sharestart”\, which broke down inter-school barriers and allowed for sharing teaching materials. Dr. Chang has been invited to share the “Sharestart” teaching methods in places throughout Taiwan\, Singapore\, Shandong\, Nanjing\, and Macau\, paving the way for educational reform in the Chinese-speaking world. \n\n 
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SUMMARY:【台灣青少年專屬】「對話練習ABC」系列活動：薩提爾冰山基礎理論與練習（3堂）
DESCRIPTION:【台灣青少年專屬企劃】\n課程時間：台灣10/19. 11/16. 12/14 (六)，19:30-21:30 \n歡迎台灣滿15~25歲青少年參與「對話練習ABC」系列活動\n請填寫Google報名表單，通過資格審查後會寄發mail到您的信箱，邀請您加入Line課程群組，請密切注意信箱郵件，並請留意信件是否遺漏在垃圾信箱喔。 \n〈家長請勿報名或代理報名，我們希望所有學員自願參與喔〉 \n\n報名截止時間: 美西2024/12/15-3:30止 ；亞洲2024/12/15-19:30止。 \n\nThreads\, FB\, 推特\, IG\, Line\, 小紅書\,抖音\, Discord….你的手機是否有更多的社交軟體？熱鬧滾滾的訊息互動，手機伴著吃外賣的機會，可能多過和朋友約著吃飯。有著年輕臉龐的你，看似獨立，卻不再吐露心聲。有心事，就打開幾個搞笑的短影音吧… \n情緒教育是目前教育體系最缺乏的一環，舞象基金會願意致力填補這塊空缺，幫助青少年在線下世界的人際互動也能游刃有餘，並且與自我建立更好連結。 \n當父母師長以愛為名，對你拋出諸多期待，除了摔門滑手機，有沒有更好的方法，表達你內心的壓力山大呢？甚至，還可能請他們給你喘口氣？「不可能啦~~」你心裡如此說。 \n那就要邀請你來上「對話練習ABC」系列活動，從認識冰山理論開始，一一解構對話溝通的元素，認清自己想要說什麼、怎麼說、對方究竟聽到什麼…最後來到一致性表達。就像學習英文或外國語言一般，學完文法，要練習開口說，課後還有小組老師陪伴三人小組對話練習喔。任何生活中的溝通挑戰，都可以先在三人小組裡做表達的練習。 \n透過練習，讓自己可以輕鬆網上聊，和人面對面也可以自在不冷場。可以傾聽、也可以自信表達。如果這是你想要的，快為自己按下報名鍵！ \n歡迎家長和孩子討論並鼓勵參加，但勿代為報名。 \n\n【課程大綱】 \n第一堂10/19-冰山基礎理論、應對姿態、互動要素練習1 \n第二堂11/16-主客觀詮釋、感受、觀點、互動要素練習2 \n第三堂12/14-期待(未滿足的期待、處理失落)、渴望、一致性表達\n \n \n\n【課後練習群組】 \n填寫報名表，通過資格審查後會寄發mail到您的信箱，邀請您加入Line課程群組，請密切注意信箱郵件，並請留意信件是否遺漏在垃圾信箱喔。 \n\n群組功用 : 提問、討論\n三人小組對話練習(小組老師陪伴)\n\n\n【參與資格 : 限滿15-25歲青少年報名】 \n\n想改善與家人的互動、增進人際關係者\n對如何運用冰山層次有興趣學習和練習者\n\n\n【參與課程，我同意】 \n課程中會錄影，提供新進來的夥伴回看影片以利跟上大家進度，影片僅供加入群組之台灣青少年專屬，不會對外公開。\n請您遵守課堂中夥伴的隱私，將聽見看見的故事留在課堂上不對外揭露，僅帶走您有觸動的部分即可。 \n\n我同意課程錄影和提供回放。\n我同意尊重夥伴隱私，不對外揭露。\n\n\n【講師簡介】 \n李明融、林秀玲 \n\n 
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CATEGORIES:線上直播
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DTSTART;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20241112T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/Los_Angeles:20241203T200000
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SUMMARY:張輝誠老師的「對話實戰班」（4堂）
DESCRIPTION:輝誠老師的對話實戰課來了！ \n你曾對不論是崇健老師或輝誠老師在與人對話時總能溫暖接住對方，三兩句話就令人感動落淚的景象感到驚奇、嚮往嗎？如果我們在日常生活中，在面對孩子、學生甚至身邊家人朋友時也能如此，那該有多好啊！想要幫助自己學習擁有這種覺察並且回應對方的能力嗎？千萬不要錯過張輝誠老師的「對話實戰班」四堂課。 \n課程中有講座，有對話實戰練習，並且會在課程進行期間同時成立群組，下課後有問題仍可向老師提問，即時解惑。 \n不論你上過輝誠老師「自我連結與連結他人：薩提爾冰山對話全面解析、體驗與練習」(初階)(中階)課程，或是從未曾上過上述任何課程，都沒有關係，輝誠老師會教你如何掌握現在、運用現在，從現在這個立足點，一步一步踏實地往前走，幫助你在與人相處、對話時的夢想畫面早日實現！ \n\n報名截止時間: 美西2024/11/19-18:00止 ；亞洲2024/11/20-10:00止。 \n\n【課程大綱】 \n一、探索-在三個時間點(過去、現在、未來)和冰山探索 \n二、情緒-應對與釋放情緒(從指出、接納到釋放) \n三、連結-連結渴望(連結愛、接納、價值和自由) \n四、轉化-真實案例練習 \n【課程說明】 \n一、60%講座+40%對話練習 \n二、課程進行期間同時成立群組，下課後仍可向老師提問 \n三、曾上過輝誠老師「自我連結與連結他人：薩提爾冰山對話全面解析、體驗與練習」(初階)(中階)課程，再來上此課程更佳。未曾上過上述課程學員亦可報名。 \n \n\n【注意事項】 \n1.請注意11/3 (日) 2:00 冬令開始夏令時間結束，亞洲時區會員請務必留意課程時間異動。 \n2.每堂課程包含講課+分組演練，報名學員需要可開麥克風或鏡頭。 \n\n【講師簡介】 \n張輝誠 \n台灣師大文學博士，台北市中山女高教師，文學作家。 \n文學作品曾獲時報文學獎、梁實秋文學獎等，著有散文集《相忘於江湖》、《我的心肝阿母》、《離別賦》、《毓老真精神》。 \n教學成就曾榮獲教育部教學卓越獎金質獎，2013年9月開始提倡「學思達教學法」，是台灣教育圈「隨時開放教室」第一人；組建臉書「學思達教學社群」，短短一年之間，超過全台兩萬名老師、家長、學生、學者進行專業教學討論；又在誠致教育基金會的資助之下建立「學思達教學法分享平台」，打破校際藩籬，共享教學講義。受邀至全台各地分享學思達教學法，更受邀至新加坡、山東、南京、澳門等地分享，為華人世界的教育革新寫下新頁。 \n\nDr. Huicheng Chang\nDr. Chang is a literature Ph.D. from National Taiwan Normal University and teacher at Taipei City Zhongshan Girls High School.  He is also a literature writer\, and  his works have won awards such as the Times Literary Award and the Liang Shih-chiu Literary Award.  His prose collections include “Xiang Wang Yu Jianghu ”\, “My Beloved Mother”\, “The Parting Elegy”\, and “The Elder Yu’s True spirits”. \nDr. Chang has achieved great success in teaching\, winning the Department of Education’s Teaching Excellence Award and introducing “ShareStart Teaching Method” in September 2013.  He was the trailblazer to advocate for an “open classroom” teaching approach.  He established “Sharestart Teaching Community” on Facebook\, where more than 20\,000 teachers\, parents\, students and scholars engage in professional teaching discussions.  With support from the ChengZhi Education Foundation\, they built a platform for “Sharestart”\, which broke down inter-school barriers and allowed for sharing teaching materials.  Dr. Chang has been invited to share the “Sharestart” teaching methods in places throughout Taiwan\, Singapore\, Shandong\, Nanjing\, and Macau\, paving the way for educational reform in the Chinese-speaking world. \n \n\n【Course Outline】 \n\nExploration – Exploring at three points in time (past\, present\, and future) and exploring the iceberg model\nEmotions – Coping with and releasing emotions (from identifying\, accepting\, to releasing)\nConnection – Connecting with desires (connecting with love\, acceptance\, value\, and freedom)\nTransformation – Real-life case practice\n\n\n【Important Notes】 \n\nPlease note the winter time schedule.\n\n\nEach class includes a lecture and group exercises. Registered participants need to be able to use a microphone or camera.\n\n\n【Speaker Introduction】 \nDr. Huicheng Chang\nDr. Chang is a literature Ph.D. from National Taiwan Normal University and teacher at Taipei City Zhongshan Girls High School.  He is also a literature writer\, and  his works have won awards such as the Times Literary Award and the Liang Shih-chiu Literary Award.  His prose collections include “Xiang Wang Yu Jianghu ”\, “My Beloved Mother”\, “The Parting Elegy”\, and “The Elder Yu’s True spirits”. \nDr. Chang has achieved great success in teaching\, winning the Department of Education’s Teaching Excellence Award and introducing “ShareStart Teaching Method” in September 2013.  He was the trailblazer to advocate for an “open classroom” teaching approach.  He established “Sharestart Teaching Community” on Facebook\, where more than 20\,000 teachers\, parents\, students and scholars engage in professional teaching discussions.  With support from the ChengZhi Education Foundation\, they built a platform for “Sharestart”\, which broke down inter-school barriers and allowed for sharing teaching materials.  Dr. Chang has been invited to share the “Sharestart” teaching methods in places throughout Taiwan\, Singapore\, Shandong\, Nanjing\, and Macau\, paving the way for educational reform in the Chinese-speaking world. \n\n 
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